Overview of the Club
Formation of the Club
Having a common heritage tends to bring people together. This is especially true for a group of people who possess a reputation for good humor and good fellowship; so it was only natural that in the daily pursuits of providing the means to raise their families, a group of local Irish gentlemen in New Jersey decided to get together. One member recalls, "I came home from work one night in January 1964, and, amongst all of the bills I received a postcard inviting me to attend ‘The Organizational Meeting of the Friendly Sons of Shillelagh’, on Friday evening, 8:00 PM at 2 Clover Street, Old Bridge. Jack Dunphy and Harry Knox explained to the group that evening they wanted to get an Irish group from Old Bridge together to march in the Newark St. Patrick’s Day Parade, in order to pay tribute to the Patron Saint of Ireland.
Historically, the St. Patrick’s Day Parades have been held in Boston as early as 1737, and in New York as early as 1762. On St. Patrick’s Day, many Americans turn “Irish” for a day and wear the color green. This was the Irish tradition that the group wanted to perpetuate.
During the initial meeting, it was also agreed upon that invitations to a general meeting to explain the organization would be extended to selected individuals of Irish ancestry who were believed to be worthy of membership. So in February 1964, a meeting was held at Fred’s Turf (Dorian Manor) on Route 9, and forty men accepted the challenge and became charter members of the Friendly Sons of the Shillelagh.
On March 15, 1964, the organization marched in their first parade in Newark, and thereafter they met every month in the clubs and restaurants in Old Bridge (Madison Township). All the while, they dreamed of one day having their own place to meet. They kept the faith, and with the great courage, the leaders sought some property in Old Bridge and supported by the members, were able to acquire a site. Next a way was devised to obtain the funds necessary to purchase materials (the labor was free, it was a labor of love) sufficient to build the building, mortgage and all.
History of the Building
The first general meeting was held at the Turf Club on Route 9. It seems Mr. Loftus was an official of the St. Patrick’s Day Parade in Newark and would be very receptive to an organization that originated principally to march in the Newark parade. The meeting began in a large room but gradually as the business began to grow we were moved to the bar area where we had trouble because the area was a public bar and too small for our growing organization.
One night we decided to transfer our meeting to O’Hara’s bar on Route 9 just over the Sayerville border. We went there because we were planning to hold a Christmas party at O’Hara’s. At the Christmas party in the midst of the merry proceedings one of our illustrious group members decided he was Gene Krupa and wrecked the drums. Needless to say this put a damper on any future meeting at O’Hara’s. No matter, we had made arrangements to hold our meeting at the American Legion Home in Old Bridge. We met there for a while, but then moved to the Knights of Columbus on Pine Street. We were constantly moving from place to place, looking for a piece of property we could acquire in order to someday build our own club. Tom English, who was at that time the Tax Collector of Madison Township, supplied us with a list of Township-owned properties which were available for sale. Jack Williams was in charge of our building committee and at our regular meeting on March 10, 1966 in the American Legion, Jack informed the membership that, "we have made a bid for piece of property and he expected action soon". He was right, on September 30, 1966, we purchased 5.4 acres of land on Oak Street. The Shillelagh’s were now men of property and they were itching to do something about building a club. The only thing that was one thing holding them back was the money!
Our capable leader, Jack Dunphy, got together with a local banker, Al Reilly, of Amboy Madison National Bank. Mr. Reilly was invited to the Knights of Columbus in Old Bridge to speak to the members about the funds needed to build the club. Loans to each member of the club in the amount of $150.00 were made and the project was off the ground and flying.
Edward Reilly, the Architect-Engineer from Perth Amboy, was commissioned to draw up the plans. On December 19, 1966, a resolution was introduced by then Mayor Harry Messenger, seconded by the Councilman Spiros Columbus, authorizing the organization to go ahead with construction. Harvey Nielson, a local contractor named "Clerk of the Works", and the main man in charge for the Friendly Sons, Ed Starace, formed the "Work Committee".
The first order of business was to clear the land, so Joe Cuff and Ed Starace made a few fast maneuvers and purchased a small bulldozer. The humor and the conversation generated about the bulldozer made the whole thing worth its weight in laughter. Suddenly, the "Miracle on Oak Street" began to take place. The footings were poured, the cinder block walls started to rise, steel began to arrive, and heavy equipment was obtained. It soon became evident that the organization possessed a wealth of talent in its members. The work committees sometimes were small consisting of only a couple of men, and sometimes there were so many on the job you could not keep track of them all. When steel was needed, we had Harry Knox as our expert. For anything relating to roofing, we had the O’Malley’s; for iron workers, we had Bob Trachman; for procurement we had Jack Dunphy; for carpentry we had Jim Moller and Joe Striffler; for electrical we had Don Fenlon and Mike Long. As each day passed, the construction continued until finally the "Miracle On Oak Street" was completed. The building is a tribute to a noble group of Irishmen who believed enough in themselves and in their fellow Irishmen to undertake and accomplish this dream.
Founding Members
Leo Ahern
Harry Amrien
William Barrett
Edward Bean
Terence Blackwell
Kenneth Burns
Richard Christie
Frederick Colcough
Patrick Connelly
Gerard DeYoung
Edward Doherty
Bernard Donnellan
James Dunn
Patrick Dunnigan
John Dunphy
James Fennessy
Edward Fitzmaurice
William Flynn
George Garrity
Dan Hughes
Harry Knox
Paul Leary
Martin Loftus Jr.
Michael Lynch
Edward McLane
Robert McNaboe
Edward Nolan
Joseph Noonan
John O'Brian
James O'Kane
Donald O'Malley
Thomas O'Malley
John O'Malley
Leo Overhiser
Barney Shannon
Edward Starace
Robert Trachman
Thomas Tyrell
John Walsh
Robert Welch